Watching with detached interest

by dixie

I am still torn between Clinton and Obama this primary season. I’m frustrated that while people have more or less gotten over the fact that Obama is black, they have not gotten over the fact that Clinton is female.

Granted, she hasn’t helped her case by nearly dissolving into tears. I must say, however, after watching the event on YouTube I wonder how many people having fits over this have actually seen a woman break down in tears the way they describe Clinton as doing. It really doesn’t look like that, guys. She got a little misty. It was probably the latest in a line of attempts to create an image that looks less bitchy and more likable. Whatever. Sometimes I wonder if all this obsession over trivia is really because there are no substantial differences between the candidates.

Gloria Steinem wrote a pithy and insightful article on the “female” issue. It is the first piece I’ve read during this entire election cycle (nearly a year now, considering my last blog entry on the subject was in February of last year) that I really liked and agreed with most of.

This is my favo(u)rite bit, but there are several other juicy lines in the article:

I’m supporting Senator Clinton because like Senator Obama she has community organizing experience, but she also has more years in the Senate, an unprecedented eight years of on-the-job training in the White House, no masculinity to prove, the potential to tap a huge reservoir of this country’s talent by her example, and now even the courage to break the no-tears rule. I’m not opposing Mr. Obama; if he’s the nominee, I’ll volunteer. Indeed, if you look at votes during their two-year overlap in the Senate, they were the same more than 90 percent of the time. Besides, to clean up the mess left by President Bush, we may need two terms of President Clinton and two of President Obama.

I don’t think it’s true that she doesn’t have to prove her masculinity (indeed, the requirement to do so has trapped all powerful women between the rock of seeming weak and the hard place of coming across as a bitch), but wouldn’t it be nice if no one did?